About Us

Ask yourself this simple question...

“When was the last time you could truly express yourself sexually?  Without fear or guilt.  Being completely open about your wants & desires.”

Most people would answer NEVER.  How sad is this?   Either they can’t express themselves for fear of rejection, or they fear the social stigma and they don’t want to deal with that.  Instead they suppress their desires or perhaps they cheat on their significant other and then try and deal with the guilt. So let’s be honest with one another.... Intimacy is part of all of us.  Being sexually active and seeking other like minded people is not only healthy but physically and emotional rewarding.   It’s ok to feel this way...most do.

Now is the time to start experiencing life!  Without fear. Where do you start??? 

First, thank you for taking the time to stop by to see what we’re all about and what we offer. We want to give you as much information as we can so you feel confident and comfortable to explore further. We’ll start off by saying we’re not a pay site.   What does this mean to you?  So many of the web sites charge a fee and really don’t care if you’re real or not.  As long as you have a charge card - you can become a member.  We are different. We only want real people - people who are looking to free themselves sexually and discover there are a lot of people out there who can enjoy life, enjoy love and enjoy intimacy openly and freely. So who are we?  We are a social group for like minded couples and women.  This also includes people who live the polyamorous lifestyle.  You may have noted that we have made no mention of single males.  At  this time we do not offer membership to single males. We are selective about our membership. 

Thumper’s is all about open minded couples and women who want a safe and comfortable place to meet and enjoy the sexual freedom the lifestyle has to offer in a no pressure setting.   We are not a website for people who just want to look at photos.  If that is what you’re looking for there are thousands of sites out there for you to join.  All our members are real, genuine and sincere people who have come to discover how rewarding the lifestyle can be.  How nice is it to know there are others like yourself who have the same outlook on sexuality.  Real, everyday people. Some of our members are full swap and some are soft swap.  Most of our women members are bisexual - but not all.  Some have been in the lifestyle for years and some are very new.  What we all have in common is a very open and loving relationship with our significant other - one that allows for a level of communication many couples can only dream of. 

Sound odd?  You’d be surprised how many people think about the lifestyle but are unable to express themselves freely to their significant other.  We all have fantasies and desires but only a few of us have established a level of trust and communication that allows us to discover these fantasies and desires together. If you’d like to learn more about what we have to offer, we invite you to explore our site and feel free to contact us.  Though open communication we can help you with many of the questions you may have and see if this is for you.